News reports over the weekend publicized the sexual violence recently perpetrated in the cases of Steubenville and New Delhi.
The fact that both these cases occurred in public with more than one perpetrator was particularly grievous, horrendous and terrifying.
The first media reports about these two cases felt like the unnerving news of the shootings at Sandy Hook, the Sikh temple in Wisconsin, and the Aurora, CO movie theater.
Is no one safe from sexual violence even on a bus, at a party, on a military base, in a church?
We know the answer. We’ve heard and read about it. One of every six women who read this has experienced sexual abuse, one in 33 men.
This, like all cases of sexual violence I read or hear about, pains me, as a human being, a woman, and a person who has experienced sexual abuse.
The reports, images, and news talk linger in my mind much, much longer than they do in an 30 or 60 second news blurb.
For the victims it lasts a lifetime, in one way or another.
This is an emotional laden subject and one you may click through. Not because you don’t care, but because you feel hopeless or powerless about this subject.
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But you are not powerless to help support someone who has experienced sexual violence.
You can become more aware, volunteer with an organization that assists victims, donate money, and/or support organizations that are dedicated to stopping sexual violence. One of the national resources is RAIN (Rape, Abuse, Incest, National Network). These suggestions to help emotional support someone comes directly from their site:
Listen. Be there. Don’t be judgmental.
Be patient. Remember, it will take your loved one some time to deal with the crime.
Help to empower your loved one. Rape and sexual violence are crimes that take away an individual’s power, it is important not to compound this experience by putting pressure on your loved one to do things that he or she is not ready to do yet.
If you are dealing with an issue involving your child, create a safe place by talking directly to them.
Encourage your loved one to report the rape or sexual violence to law enforcement (call 911 in most areas). If your loved one has questions about the criminal justice process, talking with someone on the National Sexual Assault Hotline, 1.800.656.HOPE, can help.
If your loved one is willing to seek medical attention or report the assault, offer to accompany him or her wherever s/he needs to go (hospital, police station, campus security, etc.)
Encourage him or her to contact one of the hotlines, but realize that only your loved one can make the decision to get help.
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To help support victims you don’t personally know, use your shopping acumen by shopping to support RAINN. From Amazon to Urban Outfitters, and in between, anywhere from 7% to 1.5% of sales are contributed to this organization. Or buy some RAINN Gear, they have some very cool bracelets that I bought. Here’s one of them.
Or help support my personal 30 day campaign to raise funds for RAINN. It’s not a whole lot, but it’s my pledge to support victims and be part of the change to make lives better.
On my Facebook page I’ll have status updates for the next 30 days (until April 19, 2013).I’ll give away one of the bracelets.*
Contributions are tax deductible, safe on a secure website, and you will receive a receipt from RAINN.
*details will be posted on my FB page about giveaway.
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We have a bit of Irish in our family, so on St. Patrick’s Day we celebrate our Irish connection. My nieces are of Irish and Mexican heritage, one’s named Erin, and our cousin was born on St.Patrick’s Day. Every St. Paddy’s Day, my mother enjoys a traditional meal at an Irish pub.
So what is it about St. Patrick’s Day that resonates with Latinos, especially Mexican’s and those of Mexican heritage? The answer is a little more complex than green beer and green Margaritas.
The Irish and Mexican share values of family, work ethic, Catholicism, the love of music, poetry, and we share a war. Yes, a shared war. The Mexican-American War of 1846-48 had an infantry and artillery unit of Irishmen, formed by John Riley. He formed the Saint Patrick’s Battalion, or as the Mexican soldiers called them, Los Colorados Valientes (The Valient Reds) or Los San Patricios(The Saint Patricks). The latter named stuck. Los San Patricios, led by Juan Reley (the name he enrolled into the Mexican Army) began with 175 immigrant Irish, German, English, French, and escaped African slaves from the southern USA and grew to over 700 men, the majority immigrants from Ireland. The brigade gained men as more of them became disenfranchised from the U.S Army. Theories for desertion included mistreatment of immigrant soldiers, inability to practice Catholicism, and cultural alienation. There was also the incentive of higher wages and the promise of land.
Many of these soldiers, like John Riley, identified with the Mexican people. He was shocked at the behavior of the Texas Rangers and U.S commanding officers who robbed, raped and murdered and who desecrated Catholic churches in Mexico.
Riley realized that the U.S reason for war was one of conquest; the Mexican’s reason, one of liberty from foreign intruders. While held prisoner in Mexico City, Riley wrote to a friend in Michigan:
“Be not deceived by a nation that is at war with Mexico, for a friendlier and more hospitable people than the Mexicans there exists not on the face of the earth.”
Los San Patricios, when captured by the U.S. Army, were treated and punished as traitors. Seventy-two men were court-martialed in Mexico by the U.S. None of the men were represented by lawyers, and there are no transcripts of the proceedings. All were sentenced to death by hanging. By order of Gen. W. Scott, thirty San Patricios were executed at Chapultepec, Mexico City in full view of the two armies who had fought there, at the precise moment that the flag of the U.S. replaced the flag of Mexico atop the citadel.
At the moment of the intended replacement, military cadet Juan Escutia wrapped himself in the Mexican flag and leaped to his death from Chapultepec Castle to deny the Americans the honor of capturing it. The cadet is honored as one of Los Niños Heroes.
In a final act of defiance, Los San Patricios who wereabout to be hanged cheered the Mexican flag, as one onlooker remarked: “Hands tied, feet tied, their voices still free”
The Americans considered Los San Patricios traitors, the Mexicans consider them brave heroes who came to their aid. Many of Los San Patricios disappeared from history although a handful is on record as having received the land promised to them by the Mexican government.
The men have continued to be honored and revered as heroes in Mexico. The Batallón de San Patricio is memorialized on two separate days: September 12, the generally-accepted anniversary of the executions of those convicted by the U.S. Army of desertion at time of war, and March 17, Saint Patrick’s Day.
Numerous schools, churches and other landmarks in Mexico take their name from the battalion, including:
Monterrey — The street in front of the Irish School is named Batallón de San Patricio (“Battalion of Saint Patrick”).
The St. Patrick’s Battalion Pipes & Drums or “Banda de Gaitas del Batallon de San Patricio.” (visit their FB page).
Mexico City — The street named Mártires Irlandeses (“the Irish martyrs”).
The coastal town of San Patricio, Jalisco.
The battalion’s name is written in gold letters in the chamber of Mexico’s House of Representatives.
A Mexican soccer teamnamed The Union Ultras, formerly known as St. Patrick’s battalion.
Los San Patricios were evoked in a St. Patricks day message by Subcomandante Marcos, leader of the Zapatista Army of National Liberation.
Those who survived the war generally disappeared from history. A handful is on record as having made use of the land claims promised them by the Mexican government.
In 2004, at an official ceremony attended by numerous international dignitaries including directors Lance and Jason Hool, as well as several actors from the film One Man’s Hero*(1999), the Mexican government gave a commemorative statue to the Irish government in perpetual thanks for the bravery, honor and sacrifice of the Saint Patrick’s Battalion.
The statue was erected in Clifden, Connemara, Ireland, where leader Jon Riley was born. In honor of Jon Riley, on 12 September the town of Clifden flies the Mexican flag. So in honor of the bravery and sacrifice of Los San Patricios, let’s remember them on Saint Patricks Day with the wearing of the green and listening to a rendition of Danny Boy, latino style, by musician Ruben Blades and his wife, opera star, Luba Mason.
*One Man’s Hero starring Tom Berenger, a Paramount film, is the best known of the 8-10 movies made about the participation of the San Patricio Battalion in the Mexican American War.
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