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Easter, Chocolate Bunnies and Cascarones

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“Easter is coming, Easter is coming.” I heard this today from my two young nieces. They are looking forward to visiting with extended family, attending services, and celebrating the day. 

When I heard their excited voices it  brought back so many memories of Easter outfits, food, chocolate bunnies, and cascarones (confetti eggs).

During our childhood and teen-hood we celebrated Easter by getting dressed up in sometimes okay and sometimes ghastly Easter outfits that my mom picked for us.
I have photos to prove it, but I won’t post them, or my sisters and brother will hit me with a dozen cascarones.

My mother firmly believed in dressing up for Christmas and Easter and even now scrunches up her nose when children do not have on appropriate clothes. We were poor, but she somehow managed to get us gussied up on those two holidays and believes every parent should make that effort. But that’s another story.

On Easter we’d go to Mass, Mom would take photos and then she’d let us change into play clothes so we could go to the home of a relative or to a park for the Easter meal. 

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Let me tell you, it was a full on spread of potato salad, chili beans, Mexican rice (the special holiday kind with peas), chicken, hot dogs, hamburgers, green Jell-o, and cupcakes with yellow frosting decorated with colored green coconut and jellybean eggs. Very cool. 

There was not much ‘green’ in our menu unless you counted the fake green grass in the Easter baskets or the green coconut. 

And there was the Easter Egg hunt, whether the home had grass or not. We have been known to hide Easter goodies in dirt, sand, or nopal bushes, depending on whose house.

We had jellybean eggs, chocolate eggs, real hardboiled colored eggs, and plastic eggs. My mother would save eggshells for weeks, hiding them in the cupboards, and assembling them a couple of days before Easter. We dipped, painted, used pencils, crayons, whatever and had a messy time with coloring the eggs. 
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But the absolute ‘funnest’ Easter day activity was the cascarones.

Shrieks of delight, upset, fear, and revenge filled the air as the kids and the adults snuck up on others and clobbered each other on the head with the delicate colorful eggs filled with confetti. 

Historians have traced these eggs back to Asia, originally filled with perfume powder, and brought to Italy by Marco Polo. The tradition was carried to Spain and then to America. It’s said that Carlotta, the wife of Emperor Maximillian was so fascinated by these eggs that she brought them to Mexico during her husband’s rule during the 1860’s. 

In Mexico, people replaced the expensive perfume powder with confetti. The egg shells are called cascarones, which is from the word cascara, which means ‘shell,’ as in eggshell. 

They were introduced into the United States in the 1960’s where they were used not only on Easter but during holidays and feast days. 
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I remember them fondly when I was in grammar school. During festivals, called ‘jamaicas,’ one could buy cascarones, two for a nickel. Boys loaded up on them and ran around smacking them on the shoulders or heads of girls. It usually meant the boy liked you, in that ‘caveman’ language they have. 

Girls would pretend they’d be angry, turn away from the offender unless he said he was sorry and gave her a puppy dog smile. In that case she giggled and huddled with her group of friends to be chased again a few minutes later. I think it still means the same if you’re in elementary school.

Cascarones are so popular that the designs have metamorphosised to a high art. And so has the price. Here’s some from last year that I couldn’t bear to smash on someone’s head. 
Mermaid or Sirena cascaron-alvaradofrazier.com
It’s a fun project to make your own cascarones and you can find loads of recipes. Here’s an awesome set of cascarones for wrestling fans from The Crafty Chica. The site also has the simple dyed eggs, some cool ‘pop’ icons, and a video instruction. 
If you haven’t made cascarones before, start a holiday tradition. Just be gentle when you smash them on someone. And run quickly. 



Healthy choices, RAINN, RAINN fundraiser, Safety Tips, Sexual Abuse, Sexual Violence, Spring Break, Wisdom

10 Steps to a Safer Spring Break


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Spring break is over for some colleges but is just beginning for several others. It’s a time,(and I have to go way back in my memory) when you can chuck the books relax, stay out late, and sleep in without feeling guilty for missing a class.

Whether you go out to one club or ten in a week of partying there is still a part of you that you don’t want to chuck-your safety. 

Seven of these tips are from RAINN and three are from my own experience-which I’ve handed down to my teenagers.

  1. Trust your instincts. If you feel unsafe in any situation, go with your gut. If you feel uncomfortable or something doesn’t feel right, leave and get to a safe place immediately. If someone is pressuring you, it’s better to lie and make up a reason to leave than to stay and be uncomfortable, scared, or worse.
  2. Be wary of the “You Only Live Once” mentality. Being spontaneous and adventurous goes hand-in-hand with spring break. However, being too carefree can lead to dangerous situations. Don’t leave your normal logic at home just because you’re in a foreign place.
  3. Don’t let your guard down. A spring break destination can create a false sense of security among vacationers. Don’t assume that fellow spring breakers will look out for your best interests; remember they are essentially strangers.
  4. Protect your location on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, etc. If someone you don’t know or trust asks you to go somewhere alone, let him or her know that you would rather stay with the group. Use any excuse you can think of to get out of a difficult situation.
  5. Get local. Know your accommodation address and the safest routes to and from your local destinations. Before leaving a hotel, ask the concierge for a business card with the hotel address or write the address down if you are staying at a rental property. Have the number for local cab companies and always keep enough cash on you to take a taxi home. Know who to contact in the event of an emergency, such as 911 or local authorities. If traveling internationally, have the contact information for the U.S. Embassy with you.
  6. Be a good friend—stick together & have a plan. Check out your surroundings before you go out and learn a well-lit route back to your hotel or rental property. Have a plan A and B.
  7. Use your cell phone as a tool If you find yourself in an uncomfortable situation, shoot a quick text for a “friend-assist.” Make a back-up plan before you go out just in case your phone dies. If you are traveling internationally, buy a pay-as-you-go phone or contact your cell phone provider to activate international coverage during your trip.
  8. Drink responsibly and know your limits. For every alcoholic drink, drink an equal amount of club soda, water, iced tea. Don’t be that girl that stumbles into the bathroom barfing all over the place.
  9. Shield your drinks. Keep your drink close, don’t leave it on the table. It only takes seconds to drug your drink. Likewise don’t accept drinks from strangers.
  10. Check out the club before you go there. Do they have a reputation for drugs, fights or shootings? If so, find somewhere else to go.
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In the event of a sexual assault during spring break, seek immediate medical attention. In the U.S., call 911 or the National Sexual Assault Hotline (800.656.HOPE) for advice and support. If you are traveling internationally contact the State Department or the American Embassy in country, to be connected with special services for American victims of crime abroad. You can also register your international trip with the U.S. State Department, to be notified of safety status changes.

I’ve pledged a personal 30 day campaign to raise funds for RAINN. It’s not a whole lot, but it’s an effort to support victims and be part of the change to make lives better. I invite you “…to be the change you wish to see in this world.”-Gandhi

On my Facebook page I’ll have status updates, until April 19, 2013, on this fundraising effort. I’m also giving away one of the Hope, Strength, or Courage bracelets.* 

Contributions are tax deductible, safe on a secure website, and you will receive a receipt from RAINN.

Have a wonderful weekend.


*details are posted on my FB page about the giveaway.