Encouragement, Holly Lisle, Jeff Goins, Joe Konrath, Kristen Lamb, Rachelle Gardner, WANA, Writing

Open Your Medicine Cabinet to Write

I’m sure you’ve heard the often quoted  proverb by Lao-Tzu: “The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.” But what you may not have heard so often is the translation that results from the original Chinese quote:
                                 
                                             “The journey of a thousand miles begins beneath one’s feet.”  


Before the first step is the desire to move. All of that ‘would, could, should, if, want to, maybe,” ( insert a favorite stopper phrase) doesn’t do squat but leave our feet planted into the ground. Sure we make a little dust while we shuffle our feet to the litany of ‘if’s’ but when we look at our position, we’re are still in the same place. Sometimes we must find the desire to move and shake off the constant buzz of our family/work life.


The quote is analogous to writing. Oh, yes, how we want to write a novel, get an agent, get published, see our story enjoyed by thousands millions. But none of it will happen if we do the ‘woulda, coulda’ mambo instead of making ourselves sit in front of the blank page/screen and write. And do the same thing the next day, and the next, until we are finished with a first draft. And then guess what? We do it all again during rewriting/revision.
          
                                     “It is perfectly okay to write garbage-as long as you edit brilliantly.”~Molnair.
          
Writing is not for the faint of heart or for those who don’t want to fail. Writing until we get into print is for those who show up, fail, keep learning, rewrite, and move forward. I feel a ‘Hoo-Rah,” coming on.

But some days our cheering section of zero or one isn’t enough. There are times when we need some external encouragement, someone who has been there, to commiserate with us for one minute and then shove our behinds into the chair again. 


The problem is that we often don’t know when we’ll have one of those “I can’t do it anymore,” writing days. Something that works for me is preparation. I’ve assembled a personal medicine cabinet of writers and blogs filled with encouragement to face the stagnation and move forward. 
Some of my favorites are: 


When facing anxiety go to Writer’s First Aid for several posts on whatever ails you.


Some invigorating advice about persistently writing comes from JA Konrath’s post “Writing Matters,” and Holly Lisle’s blog on “Live to Write Another Day.” 


Someone who often says that writing is a lonely business and has built a community of writers is Kristen Lamb: We Are Not Alone. She introduced me to Twitter and the WANA concept. 


For optimism and insight there are few more encouraging blogs than Literary Agent Rachelle Gardner’s encouragement section. 


And to remind oneself of why we write is the ever inspirational Jeff Goins


Last but not least, just different, is visiting my Pinterest boards. I don’t have to read, just gaze  at the photos until I feel my fingers jumpstart.


There are more blogs I could mention, but you get the idea. 


What do you have in your own writer’s medicine cabinet? I’m looking for a humor pill (blog) to fill another spot. Suggestions are welcomed. 

E-books, Joe Konrath, Wisdom

Motivational Quotes from a prolific writer…

I follow a few blogs and many times I find something that I want to post, just because it’s so good. Such is the following, from Joe Konrath’s blog, “A Newbie’s Guide to Publishing.” He’s been writing for several years, first published in 2004 and has published 40 books, most are e-books and many are very successful-meaning they are selling big time. I love his blog. He’s direct, smart and shares his knowledge.


Here’s some of the quotes I want to share and remember myself for when I need a kick in the pants:


Joe Konrath Motivational Quotes

There’s a word for a writer who never gives up… published.


You want the real secret for success? Work your ass off until you succeed, no matter how long it takes.


Ebooks are forever, and forever is a long time.

When you’re learning how to walk, you don’t take classes. You don’t read how-to books. You don’t pay experts to help you, or do it for you. You just keep falling until you learn on your own.

Before you make the key, study the lock.

It’s about what you have to offer, not what you have to sell.

You have a better chance of getting struck by lightning than becoming successful in this biz. But if you really want to get hit by lightning, you can improve your odds.

No one is entitled to anything.

What are the last ten books you bought, and what made you buy them? Use those techniques to sell your books to other people. Do what works on you.

Hard work trumps talent. Persistence trumps inspiration. Humility trumps ego.

Praise is like candy. We love it, but it isn’t good for us. You can only improve by being told what’s wrong.

Your book is your child. You can’t recognize its shortcomings, any more than a proud parent can consider their child dumb and ugly.

The experts don’t know everything, and they might not know what’s right for you.

Fate is a future you didn’t try hard enough to change.

Anyone looking for you can find you. Get them to find you when they’re looking for something else.

Life gives you wonderful opportunities to conquer fears, learn skills, and master techniques. “I can’t” shouldn’t be synonymous with “I don’t want to.”

People seek out two things: information and entertainment. Offer them freely, and they’ll come to you.

Writing is a profession. Act professional.

No one said it would be fair, fun, or easy. But it can be worthwhile.

We’re all in the same boat. Start rowing.

If you can quit, quit. If you can’t quit, stop complaining–this is what you chose.

There are a lot of things that happen beyond your control. Your goals should be within your control.

Just because something is publishable doesn’t mean it will get published. Just because something is published doesn’t mean it will do well.

Write when you can. Finish what your start. Edit what you finish. Self-publish. Repeat.

The most successful people on the planet have one thing in common: nothing can stop them. Don’t expect to reach your goals without sacrificing things that are important to you. You can’t be both happy and ambitious.

Maybe you can’t win. But you sure as hell can try.

Always have two hands reaching out. One, for your next goal. The other, to help people get to where you’re at.

If you can’t be smart or funny, be brief.

If you’re not in love with the sound of your own voice, how can you expect anyone else to ever be?

Knowing you’re not original is the first step in becoming unique.

There’s a word for a self-published writer who never gives up… rich.