It’s officially the Dia De Los Muertos, a remembrance of all our loved ones who have passed onto another world. As Chief Seattle says:
There is no death, only a change of worlds
Previous blog entries have described this “new” ancient tradition of skulls, marigolds, altars and memories. If this day is new to you, the best way for you and your children to experience the tradition is to attend an event this weekend. Talk about the meaning of this day and that it is okay to talk about the deceased. There are so many memories parents may have of their parents, uncles, aunts, best friends, grandparents or great grandparents.
Share the memories-make some memories
And one of the second best ways is through storybooks, like the one above. I just read about this book this morning and visited the author/illustrator’s site: Muertoons. I’m their newest fan. The vibrant illustrations of ROSITA Y CONCHITA and the sweetness of the story make this storybook a keeper. Encourage children to talk about their losses, their memories. Listen to their stories. And if you can’t make it to an outdoor celebration, you can always light a candle by a favorite photo of your loved ones who’ve passed, listen to their favorite songs, give them a toast, and let them know you remember them-always. Have an enjoyable weekend.
Right after the candy and costumes of Halloween, we have the celebration of Dia De Los Muertos, the Day of the Dead (DoD). This is an ancient tradition which has been reintroduced into the United States in the 1990’s. I am the second generation Mexican American. The DoD celebration was not part of my childhood or young adult years. The kids in my barrio went across town, to the North side, to go Trick or Treating. We did not stay home and build altars, make sugar skulls or bake pan de Muerto. Well, I take that back. Most of the homes in our neighborhood had little altars in the living room or in the front yard, but they housed the Virgen de Guadalupe, or a saint, some small candles, and maybe a memorial card of a loved one. As a full out celebration, the DoD was not practiced much in the ’60’s and 70’s the USA. But it has found an additional home with Hispanic and non-Hispanic millennials. I’d venture to say it’s now practiced by many Latino baby boomers and Gen X’s. In fact, I’m attending my sixth DofD celebration, this time at our county museum.
This infographic by GolinHarris on the Traveling Latina site gives an eye-opening look into the “new” old celebration. The sugar skulls, dancing calaveras (skeletons), Papel Picado, marigolds, ofrendas, altars and revelry has caught on in the U.S. Big time. Like Hollywood big time. So for those who have not attended a DoD fest, here’s a guide to have your own celebration:
Day of the Dead Nicho-flickr.com
10 Must Have Items for Dia De Los Muertos
Altar: This can be on an end table, on the unused dining table, a niche, or atop of a sturdy box. The altar is a remembrance of the dearly departed.
Papel Picado. This is preforated paper, easy to make with tissue and scissors. The element of air is visible when the paper flutters.
Ofrendas/Offerings. What items represent the departed; what did she/he enjoy?
Cempasuchitl/Marigolds. Thse flowers symbolized death. Their strong fragrance is said to help the departed ‘smell’ their way back to your altar.
Candles. These help light the way for the departed and welcome them back. This is the element of fire.
Calavera Cookies-www.alvaradofrazier.com
Food. This could be a favorite food of the departed (full meals to snacks) plus pan de muerto, a sweet bread in the shape of a skull. I liked these homemade cookies. Fruit represents the earth.
Liquid. This element represent water. The liquid could be any favorite beverage of the departed.
Photos. Place your favorite photos in prominent places for guests to see.
Incense. This may take you back to Catholic school days, but incense is chosen because it is a strong smelling aroma which is needed to guide the spirit back. Some people use sage or copal.
Stories. This gives you an opportunity to tell your friends, children, grandchildren stories about the departed and what they meant to you.
Now that you know the meaning of Dia De Los Muertos, go and celebrate your loved ones.
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