Latina, Latino culture

The A to Z Challenge: Day 2, B is for Bueno or Bueno?

1960’s telephone, photo by Annie Spratt for Unsplash.com

 

Hello to the letter B, the second letter in the A to Z Blogging Challenge.

The challenge is to write a series of 26 posts, using the letter A to Z on each day except for Sunday’s. That’s a day of rest.

The theme of these 26 posts was described in yesterday’s entry.

Today’s letter: B.

B is for Bueno which can mean Hello? Good. Well? Okay or All right.

This is dependent on the inflection and tone of the word when it’s used.

Letter B presented here to keep you and me on track.

See that 1960’s or 70’s telephone up there. Well, growing up we had one. One year it was white, another time it was aqua, and once it was avocado green. My mother liked to decorate.

First, you need to know that my mother did not teach us Spanish. In her day kids in school were punished for speaking Spanish in the playground or class or anywhere a teacher could be found.

However, we heard Spanish in our household and among our relatives especially when the adults wanted to talk in private among their children. We picked up words and phrases, cobbled together sentences until we learned more Spanish in high school.

But, back to the B.

The word Bueno baffled me. It had different meanings whenever Mom answered the phone. It could be:

1- Bueno? as in “Hello?”

2-Bueno! as in “Que bueno!” “That’s good,” or “that’s cool,” or “All right!”

3-Bueno said in a quick to the point tone which meant “okay, I got it.”

4-Or, if she wasn’t on the telephone and standing over me, hands on hips, saying “Bueno?” that meant, “Well? Explain yourself.”

An example:

The first time I called a friend, at home, and heard the father answer with Bueno? I didn’t know what to do except to ask for my friend. She came on the line and mentioned that her father found me to be impolite because I asked for her without responding to him.

The conversation should have gone like this:

Father: Bueno? 

Me:   Hola, es Monica, (Hello, this is Monica). Cómo está usted? (How are you?)

After that, I could proceed to ask for his daughter. This is because he said ‘hello’ to me first.

Later I learned that if one did not master this phone etiquette, in Spanish, parents would say, as my friend’s father did, “where was she raised, in a barn?”

He may have used a B-word to describe my lack of social etiquette: B for Burra, donkey.

I never divulged that incident to my mother, she’d have been horrified, mortificada. 

See you tomorrow with the letter C.

Don’t forget to leave a link to your post if you’re doing the A to Z challenge.

 

 

 

Family

Good Riddance March, Happy Easter, and Hello April

I wish you all Easter blessings. A time for hope.

March blew in like a cold tornado and kept going through the whole month bringing confusion, setbacks, and grief.

In my extended family, we lost a young relative ( a loving son, brother, and father) in a car accident.

Today, Easter Sunday marks an event of hope, renewal and new beginnings.

I’m holding onto that thought.

Yesterday, two of my kids in Denver began the drive back to California for a visit before one of them moves on to New York.

So, new month, April, YAY!

Today, everyone in my family is sick so Easter Brunch is canceled. BOO!

Right now I’m medicated to the gills for my bronchitis but I’d wanted to get started on a new challenge amongst the old ones, no matter what, because there’s hope for a better tomorrow, right?

April is the National Poem a Day challenge and also the A-Z Challenge for bloggers.

For the A-Z challenge bloggers pick a theme and each day we blog a new letter representing the theme.

April Challenge for Bloggers

My theme for the month of April is all things Latino, specifically culture, language, music, food, in my Mexican American heritage. 

Disclaimer: My writing reflects me and my family not the entire Mexican American or Chicano or Latinx experience.

I hope readers learn a little something about a first through fourth generation American family of Mexican descent by the time I get to writing the Z portion of the A to Z challenge.

The letter may represent an English or Spanish word, so here goes:

Today’s letter is A.

A is for Abuela: Grandmother.

Non-Spanish speakers know this word as it’s very common. The word conjures up chubby, gray-haired grandmothers, like in CoCo, who wear aprons and twist their long hair into buns or braids.

The grandmother from Coco, the movie.

Not so in my family.

In my family, not one grandmother likes being called Abuela or Grandma.

“Nope, ‘abuela’ sounds too old,” they say; “call me Nana.” Pronounced: Nah-nah.

None of them would dare expose their gray hair.

So there’s Nana Maria, Nana Debbie, Nana Robin. If we’re all together the grandkids have to specify which Nana they’re calling or talking about.

Alas, I’m not a nana yet, but I’m keeping hope alive.

The nana’s in my family do have aprons similar to the one in the photo, though. And all know how to wield a chancla like the abuela in the picture but that description will be described when we come to letter C.

The attribute my sisters, female cousins, and mother have as abuelas or nanas is their unconditional love for their grandchildren and the ability to make them all feel special.

Nana’s are proud of their grandchildren. They attend soccer games, track meets, plays, and can be counted on to buy/ sell their school fundraiser stuff to family and friends.

Every nana I know says they LOVE their relationships with their grandkids because they get to enjoy them at their best and when the kids are tired or cranky, back they go to their parents.

Nana’s always have something in their refrigerators or will cook up something for the grandkids.

Nana’s remember birthdays, even if they have ten grandkids.

Nana’s love to do stuff with their grandkids, things they may not have done with their own kids.

Last, but not least, Nana’s are the best storytellers. They tell the grandkids all the things their mother or father got into when they were young or mention their most embarrassing moments.

And for that, grandkids love their nana’s.

If you are involved in the A to Z challenge, let me know in the comments by leaving your link.